Tuesday, May 3, 2011

Osama Bin Laden Alive!!

I know people would be thinking what on earth am I talking about. Well this is what I believe seeing whats happening around.
Facts to be noted related to the so told Osama's death.
1. Sadam Hussain was a most wanted man like Osama. But he was captured brough to trial and every detail was given to the public with Live Videos too. But in this case the public was informed that he is dead in an encounter. There are no pictures, no videos and no body of his to be shown too. They buried him in 2 hours since his death.
2. There must have been a fight and they must have causght or killed someone thinking it was Osama but at last after they came to know its someone else, they must have just spread rumours.
3 Obama is not been approved by the Americans for his deeds, so his tactic to get the approval of all Americans and to get their votes for the upcomming elections
4 If Obama was killed why is that there is no assurance till now from the pakistan government about the attack as they too were involved in the encounter
5 There was a helicopter crash that had happened in the same place during the encounter. The US government has not spoken anything about this till now.
6. Is the US inteligence so weak that takes them 10 years to figure out he was staying in pakistan in public.
7.US does not know where he is, and needs to know where he is and needs to confirm if he is alive. Spreading such a news would create responses from him if alive.
There are lot many reasons why one cant believe that he is dead. If he is dead then it would be a relief to all mankind. But if he is not dead then it would be a great act of terror that is yet to come.

Thursday, April 21, 2011

My research on Back Ache and its causes

Back pain can be cause due to a number of reasons and also due to various kinds of health related factors. It has been seen that some of the back pain causes are common activities that we perform in our everyday lives and these result in some of the most suffered forms of pains. It has been seen that back pain episodes usually diminish within a few weeks if caused from muscle strain. But if these forms of pain are caused due to any other internal reasons then this backache can be amongst the most difficult and frustrating problems for patients and their doctors.




It is not very easy to understand the causes of these back pains and their occurrences but this is also the key to proper treatment because back pain is sometimes difficult to treat. Thus with a better understanding of the causes of will assist patients in their recovery and the patient can avoid the reasons that cause these pains also. It has been seen that some of the most common causes of back pain are strains in the muscles which usually cause pain in the lower back of the body.



In most of the cases the patients may or may not remember the initial event that triggered their muscle spasm but most of the times these pain fade away in a few weeks time. However this pain can re-occur if the right care and caution is not taken and hence muscle strains should be treated the right way to avoid these kinds of pains. It has also been seen that a ruptured inter-vertebral disc, which is also called a herniated disc, can be another common cause of back pain.



Also along with these forms of back pains the Disco-genic back pain is thought to be a common cause of low back pain. Basically the Disco-genic back pain is the result of damage to the inter-vertabral disc, but without disc herniation and the diagnosis of disco-genic back pain may require the use of a discogram, which also helps to treat the problem of the same. The spinal stenosis causes back pain in the aging population and hence the older age group should take special care of the same.



As the people grow older the spinal canal can become constricted and this can also be a part of arthritis and other conditions. Thus if your spinal canal becomes too tight, back pain can be the result and hence you need to keep exercising at older ages to remain fit. Another common problem that affects the joints is arthritis most commonly affects joints such as the knees and fingers. But various studies have proved that arthritis can affect any joint in the body, including the small joints of the spine and cause back pain.



Another common cause of back pain is Spondylolysis, which causes back pain because adjacent vertebra becomes unstable and begins to slip. This pain happens because of degenerative changes causing loss of the normal stabilizing structures of the spinal column and this is also one of the major causes of back pain today.

Permanent Solutions To Back Pain

The problem of the back pain is a regular phenomenon with most people today due to their sedate lifestyles and also due to their inability to exercise regularly. There are various other factors that can also cause back pain and these include sitting or standing for prolonged periods, not sleeping or sitting in the right posture and various other factors also. There are various solutions for permanent back pain cure and these should be implemented if your pain is affecting your general health because most back pain problems fade away in a couple of days.



But if the problem persists and you are unable to deal with the same then it is time to consult a specialist and try and find solutions for the same. It is true that almost everyone has had some type of experience with back pain to some degree but there are people who suffer from permanent ailments due to the same. The treatment is important in the recovering stage from back pain and there are times when the pain can heal on its own. But if the pain requires some type of help for just enduring it then it is best not to delay the same.



Various other options are there for treating the problems of the back and it should be remembered that the back pain treatment doesn't always require going to the doctor. There are many other solutions for the same and these include options of using a heating pad to get the relief you need on a less permanent injury. The back pains can also be caused due to muscle strains and spasms and these pads can help provide relief from the same and help to relax the muscle and give pain relief as it relaxes.



Remember that it does not matter if the pain is permanent or not, if it is causing you trouble and is not letting you perform regular activities then it is best to find some treatment for the same. In this reference a hot water bath is also recommended because it helps to soothe the pain. There are also various other internal and external drugs which are available for treating the problem of back pain and these methods should be implemented.



If an inflammation has occurred due to the back pain then using an anti-inflammatory will help because the swelling causes pain. Thus once you treat the same you can easily get rid of the same. There is also a solution called the back surgery, which is for patients who are experiencing neurological symptoms. These include loss of control of the bowel or bladder and thus back surgery is necessary to prevent permanent paralysis.



There are various kinds of risks involved in these kind of back pain and thus it is required that you perform surgeries only if the doctor finds it essential. There are various factors that the doctor has to consider about this surgery and only then is the operation suggested. These include the severity of the back problem, diagnosis of the back problem and other related health factors also.




Workouts To Get Back Pain

Most of the people suffer from back pain due to weakness in the muscles in the back, buttocks and abdomen. It is therefore important to undertake back strengthening work outs to provide the spine with additional strength and support. There has been a huge number of back strengthening work outs developed over the years, although it is important to remember not to overdo the exercises initially as it could easily result in immediate back pain. Five of the most popular back strengthening work outs is described below.



The Bridge - Focusing in on the core muscles, the bridge commences by lying flat on the back. The knees should then be bent to a right angle, with feet positioned flat on the ground. The buttocks are then should risen off of the ground, ensuring that the abdominals are kept tight. This should ensure that the shoulders to the knees are in a straight line, and is a position that should be held for five seconds. The buttocks should then be lowered back to the ground slowly. This is one repetition and initially should be done five times although with practice the number of repetitions can be increased.



The Plank - This work out is designed to help with the strengthening of the abdomen and back, the Plank also assists in strengthening the legs and arms as well. The Plank operates from a prone position, lying on the stomach with forearms and elbows placed on the floor. A push-up position should then be achieved with balancing on toes and elbows. The legs and back should then be straight and that position should then be held for ten seconds, people should then relax and repeat for a further four times. Again the number of repetitions can be increased over time and ability.



The Wall Squat - Working on the hips, legs and back, the Wall Squat commences with people standing with their back up against a wall. Their heels should be about a foot and a half away from the wall, with heels about shoulder-width apart. Then people should slowly slide themselves down the wall until their knees assume a right angle. This position should then be held for five seconds before they slide back up the wall.



Leg and Arm Raises - Focusing in on the hip and back Leg and Arm Raises take place from a prone position. Arms should be beyond the head so that both the palms of the hands and the head are touching the ground. The right arm should be lifted, as the head and shoulders are raised as well, simultaneously the left leg should be lifted. Then arm and leg should be stretched; this position must then be held for up to half a minute. Returning to the start position people should alternate arm and leg.



Leg Lifts - To help the back pain it is also important to strengthen the quads, and this can be done through Leg Lifts. People should start by lying on their back and the right knee should be bent to a right angle, ensuring the foot is flat on the ground; now keeping the left leg straight, it should be raised until it level with the height of the opposing knee. This position should be held for three seconds and then repeated, before switching other sides. The number of repetitions can be increased over time gradually.





Exercises To Get Rid Of Back Pain


There are many people who can not bend over. They can not play with their kids or grandkids; can not play golf; even they can not do their regular routine around the house. The long commute to work is killing them. People sit at their desk in gnawing pain for long periods of time and get nothing done because of it. Most of the people have got back pain and they need to get rid of it.



First and foremost, people need to see an expert to determine the cause and solution of their back pain. This is not something really to be ignored. People should ask around the gym or the office for a referral to a good soft-tissue therapist that could be a physio or a chiropractor. Then people have to see their doctor and get help as soon as possible.



Second, people need to find the cause of their pain and eliminate it. If they have a bad bed, a poor office workstation setup, or a bad exercise program they must remove the offending activity that is crippling them with back pain. Fortunately, there are many ways to help reduce their back pain in the gym. On the other hand, there are many ways that people might make the back pain worse. Here is the one thing people should never do in the gym if they have back pain, people should never round their back. So that means no crunches, no sit ups, no picking up weights off the floor with a rounded back, and no rowing exercises performed with a rounded back. People should be diligent with their form in all squats, rows, deadlifts, etc. If in doubt, people may skip the exercise.



Now picking up weights off the floor and that is where people see some of the ugliest form in the gym; so people should not think that because it is not really part of their exercise that they can use poor posture when they are moving weights around the gym. People need to follow several rules when lifting for proper form. People should increase their abdominal endurance with exercises like the plank and side plank; brace their abdominals or clench them tight in every exercise; should keep their low back in a proper alignment by keeping a slight arch in the low back in all exercises.



People need to follow these rules and they will be able to exercise safely. The right strength program comes with torso training workouts that will help them to build muscle endurance and reduce their risk of back pain. Being overweight is another reason of back pain and knee pain too. So people need to get on a fat loss program that works and takes care of their back at the same time.



Pharmaceuticals very often will make people feel unwell and some of them even have some serious side effects. They might help them in relieving of their pain for a short period of time but on the other side it is very well possible that they damage something else in your body. Often leaving them sicker then they had been when they were just affected by back pain. Not just any exercise will do to get rid of the back pain. Only some very specific exercises will be able to relieve people from back pain; the most effective exercise for back pain is stretching. Everyone need to do some stretching as a daily exercise as it softens the muscle tissue and makes their body relax more.





Men are talk-impaired, relatively speaking,

The largest percentage of adult men? Married men. And until now they've had no voice, contends Rhode Island psychiatrist Scott Haltzman, M.D.


It could be argued that men don't need another voice; their voice in the culture is loud enough for most women. But Haltzman argues that married men are different and need a voice because they are at a distinct disadvantage in relationships, verbally and emotionally.



The average woman uses 7,000 words a day and five tones of speech, he points out. The average man uses 2,000 words and three tones. "Men are talk-impaired, relatively speaking," he says.



Men are also impaired at experiencing emotion. They need help figuring out what to do. Some things are not intuitive. Talking about feelings, for example, increases men's stress levels.



Sometimes marriage is flawless. But most often it is not. Men who stay married have somehow learned techniques to preserve their relationships. He notes that "most men have learned these techniques on their own and don't do it in obvious ways."

Haltzman contends that marriage is as much a health issue as a quality of life issue issue. Married men make more money, have more peace of mind, and have more and better sex. Marriage also lowers men's health risk, while divorce raises the risk of death by 200 percent for men.




So Haltzman is busy researching ways to help understand the relationship patterns of husbands and wives. He has set up an internet community for married men to share their experiences and wisdom about marriage. It's called www.SecretsofMarriedMen.com. And it's terrific.



Here are tidbits of his own wisdom:



•Working on a relationship is a man's job as much as a woman's. Often it is the man's behavior that predicts whether a couple stays together. Men need to accept the influence of their wives.

•Once men decide to marry, they are more committed to the relationship than women are.

•Guys look at relationships differently from women, but the most commonly discussed ways of fixing relationships are geared to feminine styles.

•"Men really do feel incredible passion for their wives, but they don't recognize it sometimes."

•"Most affairs don't happen by chance meetings. Infidelity occurs in up to 40 percent of marriages. By age 45, two out of every five men and one out of every five women has had at least one affair."

•"For an overwhelming majority of spouses who cheat—80 percent—the reason is not sexual. Most simply seek validation, warmth, understanding or love."

•"In general, extramarital sex is not as good as marital sex. On average, married couples have more sex than any other group. The bottom line is affairs can be prevented. It's all in the choices you make."

And here's his single wisest piece of advice: "Marriages improve when a spouse learns to shift away from his or her own personal desires and listen to the needs of the husband or wife."


Monday, August 16, 2010

The big eyed husband

Well you might be thinking about what this is all about? Its just about an amazing dinner I had with my friends and colleagues.. I must admit it was an experience which none of us would ever forget.

We been deciding about this get together for the past one year. but could not make it as its all about work and to get all of us under one roof which was a really tideous job.

My new manager Brijendra is a person who just needs to get things going fast. He just came one day saying we will have a party with the new bees and so started our discussion for the venue.
We got to search for a restaurant which had a good ambiance and ofcourse the food had to be good and cheap too.
Atlast my TL Vineet suggested a place in Indiranagar named 'Herbs and Spices' which was 15 minutes drive from office. When Brijendra came we again had confusions but we did book a table for 10 in Herbs and spices as well as in another restaurant named 'Village' which I forgot to cancel also.

So off we go to Herbs. Four of us on two bikes and the rest of them by car. We had difficulty finding the place but at last in midst of Bangalore traffic we found it.

So here we are 6 men and 2 ladies in front of Herbs and spices( 2 more yet to come as they had to break their fast before they start). So we headed to the main door where the manager came to greet us with his usual smile. So we get in and see it had a real good ambience and real good music being played.

We took our seat and a boy brings us the menu. Here starts the comedy. None of us can understand what kind of food it is. So we call the waiter again and he explains us most of it. So we order some starters and juices. Food comes and its really good... we just loved it .. so now the main course... we all order different combos.. in the mean time the 2 guys who were supposed to come reach and we had our photo sessions and cracked a few jokes here and there..

By this time the whole restaurant was full with foriegners and the band was also on.. our food comes in and you could see the facial expression of everyone changing..
As the name mentioned Herbs..we all had just herbs in our plates.. I had ordered chicken breast with mushroom sause... was thinking it would be so delicious with the aroma of a spicy chicken.. but here in front of me is a big piece of chicken with a lot of herbs on top of it with some mushroom and sause..

I just looked around the table and Ahamed on my left was looking at me as if I had eaten his food and waiting for the next..he was ready with his plate for me .. turning to the other side I saw shiny asking Brijendra to take half of the boiled alive fish from her plate...

Then comes Nitam's bowl... he had ordered combo of all fishes.. he was laughing at us seeing our expressions not knowing about what is about to come.. seeing his bowl he was like a 5 year old boy who was given some grains to chew when all were having chocolates.. we all peeped into his bowl and it was a huge laughter..ohh we could not stop laughing seeing his expression after he had the first spoon of his is so called porrige of fish.. it as just some rice mixed with fish and milk..
He called the waiter and asked if it was the same thing he had ordered... Yes it was came the reply.

After 15 min of hard work we all could finish a half a days job of chewing the food we had in front of us and rest passing the plates to each other.

In the mean time beside us came and sat a couple around their late 30s. we just saw them and didnt mind at all as we were busy trying to feed the others from our plate..
Brijendra and Vineet was telling us about the owner who is a Punjabi and was pointing at him which we could see through the couples table. And I was looking at the Certificate of excellence given to this restaurant by some one.. suddenly I could feel a stare at me... A big round eyes full of anger staring at me.. I looked at the person and it was none other than the man who came with his wife and sat on the next table beside us.. Why the hell is he staring at me????

I looked at Brijendra and brij's eyes asked me the same question why is he staring at us.... his eyes could express anything u say... He was a bald man with a bit of grey hairs shown out .. I looked at his wife and understood the scene.. She was covering her face and looking the menu..

Now I understood that the man thought we were looking at his wife when we were actually looking at the sardar ji and the certificate just above the table they were sitting at..

What did i do for him to stare at.. we were not happy with the food and here comes another guy with his big eyes eating me up.....
we just ignored him for some time but he kept on staring at me and started abusing us also..

Now what do u think is wrong with him?? did his wife tell we were staring at her or was he watching at us trying to know what we were looking at??? or was it a kind of pscho character we are talking about here??????????

who knows.. ?

well we just payed our bills and were about to go when this fellow again started abusing..

I just went to their table and asked him 'Is there a prob?'
Physcho: No what prob?
me: then what are you staring at for the past one hour?
physcho: i didnt
me: you have any prob then let me know instead of staring and abusing other..
Physcho: mind your own buisness man
me: you have any probs then go sit home and solve it rather than coming and showing ur bald head and big fucking eyes on others table..

Now Brijendra and Vineet come and pull me out and his wife tells us to leave their table.. so we come out..

we go out and we all laugh about this guy and his poor wife who will have to suffer because of her husband and their dinner is spoilt too.. we go for an icecream and all go back home..
But the big eyed husband is still a mystery to me....

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